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Welcome to My Blog – Where Stories, Secrets, and the Writing Life Collide

Every story has a deeper layer, and this is where I unravel the mysteries behind my books, share the real-life inspirations behind my stories, and offer insights into the writing and publishing journey.

Here, you’ll find:

  • Behind-the-scenes secrets from Mist and Unappeased Spirits and Sun on Your Back
  • The true stories that inspired my books, from unsolved disappearances to real-life trauma
  • Writing & publishing insights—what I’ve learned along the way
  • Expanded thoughts from my most viral social media posts, diving deeper into topics that sparked conversation

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How Grief Reshapes Your Faith — and Makes It Deeper

Grief has a way of undoing you. It dismantles the beliefs you thought were unshakable, questions every answer you ever trusted, and leaves you standing in the rubble of a life that suddenly feels unfamiliar. When loss arrives—whether it’s the death of someone you love, the end of a relationship,

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Faith Isn’t About Having No Doubt — It’s About Holding On Anyway

There are days when faith feels easy—when life is smooth, prayers are answered, and hope feels natural. On those days, belief doesn’t require effort; it flows freely. But there are also days when faith feels impossible. Days when everything falls apart, when silence replaces answers, and when the waiting never

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The Love That Didn’t Last but Still Changed You

It’s strange how love can end and still live within you.How someone who once held your hand through every storm can now exist only as a memory — and yet, that memory still shapes the person you’ve become. We’re taught to measure love by its longevity. As if the only

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Inspired by Archbishop Desmond Tutu’s Truth and Reconciliation philosophy, this reflection explores how recognition, truth-telling, and empathy can guide the healing of survivors of sexual abuse and assault — offering a path toward resilience and intergenerational recovery.

Desmond Tutu Taught Us: Healing Begins with Recognition, Not Excuses Archbishop Desmond Tutu taught the world that true healing begins not with technicalities or excuses, but with recognition of harm and truth-telling. In the Epstein and in many abuse stories, people ignored that crucial step. Survivors Denied Agency from the

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How Spiritual Encounters Influence Creative Expression

There are moments in life when creativity doesn’t feel like something we do — it feels like something that happens to us. Words appear as if whispered from another realm, melodies arrive in dreams, and images seem to flow from an unseen current of energy that moves through us rather

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Why Women’s Voices Matter: Using Literature to Advocate for Change

Throughout history, women have used words as weapons, shields, and bridges—tools to challenge injustice and illuminate hidden truths. In societies where women’s voices were once silenced or dismissed, literature became a space of resistance and self-definition. From diaries and letters to novels and poetry, women have transformed personal experience into

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Every woman’s healing journey is unique. In this blog, we share powerful stories of women overcoming trauma — from public figures to real-life survivors — and explore the diverse ways resilience emerges, even after silence and pain.

Women Overcoming Trauma: Stories of Strength and Survival Women surviving, healing, and reclaiming their lives are also part of unresolved trauma. No two healing pathways are the same. Each story shows us that resilience is not a straight line but a winding road shaped by personality, resources, relationships, and all

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When the Powerful Harm: Survivors Speak About Trauma and Silence

Introduction Trauma leaves scars that do not fade with time. When powerful men cause harm, disbelief, gaslighting, and the weight of institutions that protect themselves magnify the impact. Survivors must not only endure the pain of their experience but also prove their truth in a world that often prefers silence.

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How Trauma Affects Relationships and Ways to Build Healthier Bonds

Trauma doesn’t just live in the past — it often shows up in how we love, trust, and connect today. If you’ve ever wondered why relationships feel harder than they “should,” you’re not alone. This blog explores how trauma affects relationships, why resilience after abuse is possible, and how healing

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What If They Were Telling the Truth?

The Quiet Before the Gunshots: What Society Missed in the Menendez Case Summary: The Menendez Brothers Case In August 1989, Lyle and Erik Menendez shot and killed their parents, José and Kitty Menendez, in their Beverly Hills home. At first glance, the crime seemed like a cold-blooded act of greed

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Modern Daddy and the Rebranding of Abuse: When Power Writes the Love Story

Silk, Cliché, and Control: Why the Diddy Defence is so Dangerous.ByNaira KhanThey called it a “modern love story.” She called it survival.They said the texts were “beautiful.”They said what the prosecution calls a crime scene was just his “private sex life.”And they called him the victim — misunderstood, unfairly targeted,

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Into the Mist: Exploring Mount Nyangani in Mist and Unappeased Spirits

Tucked in Zimbabwe’s Eastern Highlands, Mount Nyangani is more than the country’s highest peak — it’s a place where ancestral reverence meets whispered fear. Known for its sudden mists, inexplicable disappearances, and profound spiritual significance to the Shona people, the mountain has long fascinated storytellers, hikers, and spiritual seekers alike.

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Predators and Prey: A Tale of Power and Vulnerability

1) The Predators: Architects of Control Sean “Diddy” Combs, Jeffrey Epstein, and Harvey Weinstein each wielded immense power in their respective industries—music, finance, and film. They leveraged their influence to manipulate, exploit, and silence their victims. Sean Diddy is accused of orchestrating a decades-long sex trafficking operation, involving coercive “freak-off”

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What We Get Wrong: Myths About Domestic Violence That Still Hurt Victims

Despite decades of activism, legislation, and public education, the truth is sobering: myths about domestic violence still persist. They slip into courtroom arguments, media narratives, casual conversations—and too often, into the minds of victims themselves. As a psychologist and writer, I’ve sat with survivors and imagined characters like Sophia Kruger

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 Red Flags We Miss: How Society Enables Abusers

Meta Description: Abusers often appear ordinary—trusted, respected, even beloved. This article explores how society enables abuse through silence, denial, and misplaced loyalty.SEO Keywords: childhood trauma book themes, author advocating social justice, novels with generational wounds, Zimbabwe UK literary fiction Red Flags We Miss: How Society Enables Abusers They don’t wear

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The Narcissist’s Playbook: Charm, Control, Collapse

They don’t show up as monsters. At first, they show up as magic. Narcissists often begin relationships with overwhelming charm, attention, and promises of forever. But slowly, subtly, the dynamic shifts—from admiration to control, from warmth to withdrawal, from love to emotional devastation. Narcissistic abuse is one of the most

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Honour Killings in the UK: The Myths We Must Break

We like to think of honour killings as something that happens “elsewhere.” In another country. In another culture. But so-called “honour-based” violence has claimed the lives of girls and women right here in the UK—while the systems meant to protect them have often failed. These killings are not about honour.

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Why Do Men Abuse Children? Investigating the psychology of a paedophile.

Meta Title: Why Do Men Abuse Children? | Sun on Your Back BlogMeta Description: Not all paedophiles were abused. And a good deal re-offend. This post explores the psychology of child abusers, exposing dangerous myths through fiction and fact.SEO Keywords: childhood trauma book themes, author advocating social justice, novels with

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Lady Robertson and Performative Prejudice in Mist and Unappeased Spirits

Meta Description: Explore subtle racism, Islamophobia, and class bias in Mist and Unappeased Spirits through the character of Lady Robertson. A cross-novel reflection on women of colour navigating love, identity, and conditional acceptance. URL Slug: lady-robertson-prejudice-mist-unappeased-spirits Target SEO Keywords: Muslim woman protagonist, subtle racism in fiction, Islamophobia in literature, prejudice

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The Price of Silence: How Minimising Violence Costs Us All

Sometimes I wonder how many times I’ll have to say the same thing before someone actually hears it. People have hurt children. That silence protects abusers. That fiction isn’t a threat—it’s a way to tell the truth when the truth gets ignored. Despite that, there are people who flinch at

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When Someone Vanishes: The Weight of Ambiguous Loss

How unresolved grief lingers in silence—and in the mist Keywords: ambiguous loss, missing persons, Mount Nyangani, unresolved grief, trauma, Mist and Unappeased Spirits, emotional aftermath, disappearing without closure Some Losses Don’t End. They Echo. There’s a kind of loss that doesn’t come with certainty. No last goodbye. Nobody to bury.

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The Mountain That Swallows People

The Mountain That Swallows People Authentic stories of disappearance on Mount Nyangani—and the pain of not knowing There are places in the world where silence is heavier than sound. Mount Nyangani, in Zimbabwe’s Eastern Highlands, is one of them. For years, that mountain has drawn me. Not only because of

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Introduction to Social Media & the Challenges of Book Promotion

“Writing a book is one thing. Getting people to read it? That’s a whole different story.”

When I first started out, I had no idea how much social media would shape my journey as an author. I thought writing the book would be the hardest part—but then I entered the world of marketing, algorithms, and endless content creation.

I had to teach myself everything from scratch:

  • How to make engaging videos with CapCut
  • Designing eye-catching visuals with Canva
  • Learning what makes a post go viral (and what gets ignored)
  • Figuring out which ads actually work and which ones drain your budget

It was overwhelming. It was frustrating. It was time-consuming. But eventually, through trial and error, I started to understand what resonates with readers and how to use social media as a tool rather than a burden.

 The reality is: social media isn’t just a promotional tool—it’s an extension of your storytelling.

It allows authors to connect with readers, build communities, and showcase the heart behind their stories. But it requires:

✅ Patience (because success doesn’t happen overnight)

✅ Adaptability (because platforms change all the time)

✅ Creativity (because engagement matters more than just posting)

So, if you’re an author feeling lost in the sea of hashtags, algorithms, and content creation pressure—know that you’re not alone. It’s a learning curve, but one that can transform your career if approached with curiosity and persistence.

Here are some of my posts that performed very well on social media.

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